If the thing is designed for you that you are

Taught

me that you can be any size and hate your body and you can be. You can be any size and be vulnerable to

assumption made public about you, based on the appearance of your body. How it affects us, moving around in this soup

This is one of the fat

it should be out of control that a stray, it should be zoned with that tight little

package it should be together. Stereotypes as toxins. What determines how lasix 4 mg they will affect you that your state of emotional

immune system: defense you have in storage that toxic substances

, outside. Working in a psychiatric hospital the woman taught me that

what you do with food can not be read from your body. There was 60ish pounds. bulimia

woman who reported overeating to 20,000 calories a day and 500-plus pounds. A woman who was

, to die of hunger which, in fact, was a post for 9 months. However,

when these women went out almost all who saw them assumed that a woman exhausted >> << restriction and fat woman was binging. These assumptions, as a projection of the film

you like on the screen. This can become quite tiresome to be thick and have a Lord, it

should not have the will and hatred most film projected on you, but it also

tedious to be relatively nice and be done Ohmygod, she should think << It >> completely perfect, I hate it film. Estimates vary depending on body size and appearance, and

, gender, ethnicity, class, age and so on. There is usually something painful >> << us that is projected onto, especially when the assumptions are negative, far from

truth, or we feel powerless to influence them. This makes them more

toxic. There are certain situations that especially

difficult because takes very little information about you, except that they may see

, and their own associations to this spectacle. Interviews, blind dates, bars for singles

, walking down the street - all these moments when you are most vulnerable to

is just a front for another association. But most of the time there is a significant amount you

can do to show through projection, rather than be passive film

screen. Think about who hit you particularly socially successful

is not that conventionally attractive. What kind of appeal? They are not passive

screens, which should be alone, Plain Gal / Guy movie. Somehow they seem to be vaccinated against the forces that select for Barbie and Ken >> << The challenge before all of our task is to find ways to show

. up the projection, as our real, unique self. Here are some skills

representing an effective protection for your emotional immune system:

, Know yourself - in fact, full of yourself

metaphor emotional immune system highlights >> << important that you believe about your body and yourself. As a physiological

immune system protect you from toxins? (Please excuse me

gross simplification, but :) It compares things come from outside to >> << what is inside is to determine if a foreign invader. If

not be compared, it runs the army. But what if there is a coincidence? This is probably

let things go outside the border and do the work inside. If the thing is designed for you that you

concern can be said about you, if you understand these depressing stereotypes (I

fat lazy loser out of control), he walks past your limits and confirms

your worst fears. It hurts you deeply. On the other hand, if you did

work critically think about the culture and how depressing can be

different groups of people, and you looked inside to your own views and

challenge yourself to tell the truth about themselves , the case

be projected onto you is unlikely to match. It can still hit you, but maybe

This will give you an incurable disease. Instead, you might think that the guy / gallon really is a problem with

(FAT / old / Asia / disabled / gay / etc.) People. It was your misfortune

cross your path today, but their bigotry does not make you bad. Metaphor emotional immune system as

highlights the fact that no matter how many domestic cleaning we do, we

will be vulnerable to external toxins. We still have. But we must try to stay as strong as

possible to solve this problem, so that domestic tasks are also important. Emotional work >> << and activity reinforce each other. Mind, to change their culture, and

let your body be. .